Just 3 months off work due to maternity leave, so many issues had happened in my workplace. Many changes and many unhappiness. Like always this is called “office politics”. But what saddened me is the fact that it’s happening in my own very department. What is the point fighting with one another in your own department as we are working to lift up this department name but by doing this, we only get fucked and laughed by the other departments. Human will always be human. They said, it’s age gap. But maybe, it’s true. Somehow, I’ve been working in a few company and had learnt to deal older women. Not easy but it’s not difficult actually.
Recently, there’s a hot topic at work about one of my colleagues blog. I don’t know what really happened but guess she was told not to write certain things on her blog. I do agree that blogs are meant to be a place to vent out your anger and frustration. Freedom of speech but it’s not happening here. But what bothers me most was one of her latest post which stated, “ Why could some people able to write trash about their colleagues and even give more obvious ‘fill in the blanks names’ and not get banged, whilst I did?”
Know what peeps, the line above was about ME. Remember the posts on Life in a MNC Company and The EMAIL? Why must I be dragged in over it? Why? It wasn’t me who told my manager about her blog, that’s her own damn problem to write what she wanted. I have a blog too and I understand the meaning of “Freedom of Speech”. What is wrong with all this people. By the way, about the people on that posts, I had already forgive them long time ago and had since been nice towards one another but I did not post that. Maybe I should as not to invite this kind of things. Seriously, please do remember that I wasn’t the only one with your blog address. You gave to others too, remember?
I wrote that posts because there were issues to begin with and it’s not because over fighting for position, who should leave or stay or whatsoever. I wrote that because certainly I was bullied by the other department because I was so very new and because I was my uncle’s niece. It was because too, I didn’t know them very well but now when I did, I was wrong too.
If people from work happened to read my blog, please continue reading because seriously, I am just a human and I want to let out everything out my chest.
Let’s be adults and not attacking one another. We are considered family as we are in the same department. I know of certain people in my department talking about me too but who cares, I shut my mouth because I did not want to jeopardize the stability and the “calmness” of my department. That was the main reason.
Life will never be easy in the working life. Trust me. There will always be office politics everywhere. Not only aunties love gossips, young people too. By the way, those younger people are much more scarier because they dare to attack and fight. Dare to be straight-forward. Dare to hurt. Dare to kill. Because like us, we always thought we will be much better than the others. It’s human thing. How do I know this? Because I’ve worked far too many companies and I had the chance to see all those stupid things wherever I go. It’s not about the age, it’s about humans. Just stick to this old saying, “There is never a perfect world”. We will be contented with what we have.
Will be back on this coming Monday. Let’s see if it’s really that bad. Will update you peeps again.
A fine world? Nope.
